Know Your Date
7 Tips on How to Know Your Date is Going Well
Being on your first date with your girl seems more or less like a job interview. Since the date is fixed, you try to give all the attention to yourself, preparing the perfect lines and dressing in the perfect manner to impress the girl. Every single word is presented carefully so that the call back after the date is quick and inviting.
Once the date is fixed, the wait till the time of the meeting is spent on never ending preparations. After the first session, the hours are spent restlessly for the phone call or message. The guy tries to recall every single moment of the engagement rechecking if something had gone wrong till the call comes from the girl.
There are several simple signs which can be presented by the girl knowingly or unknowingly to where you stand at your first date. You get so much engulfed in your worries of impressing her that you fail to note those positive signs. In some situations, even the passerby will be able to know that it is the first date, and it is on a mode of wrecking havoc. Here are the top seven signs that will help you understand of your rendezvous is going on the right path or not.
- A Long Night Date
How to know your date is working
We would have seen in movies, those long night days where the couple spends time in enjoyable chitter chatter and they realize very late that too much time has passed on. It is not just in movies that the date goes beyond the coffee at the cafe with some desserts and a light dinner. You then plan for a walk on the streets where the lady giggles and shows signs that she is enjoying the time without bothering to be getting back home. This does not mean that the day ends in either person home. The first date will sure move on to the next one if you remember only by the sunrise that you have work or classes to attend in the morning. A date that does not go until an hour and the lady being in a hurry to get back home; it can be clear sign that the day and the meeting are not yours to claim.
- Common factors
When the dating couple can find some common grounds, it’s a great sign that things are going well. This can be simple things like the favorite music band, hobbies, and love for a particular author or even the same morning cereal. It’s only in very fewer dates that the girl would open up her interests. It is taken as a sign of comfortability that the lady feels it safe to share her interests, likes, and dislikes. The date will be mostly the first close encounter with the person, and the ability to speak out interests is a sure shot. With common interests, there would be no issues in talking freely. Some dates remain rather dumb for the first half an hour till food arrives, and such dates usually end with the bill.
- That tingling touch
By touch, we do not mean to refer to an indulging kiss or anything that follows. Most women would never go in for a kiss on the first date if they are serious about relationships. Men also wouldn’t fumble a lady whom he wants to win over. So never relate such extreme touches to an encouraging date sign. We are talking about the unintentional but cute touches of the tips of the hand ever a cup of coffee. A small sign would be the soft tingly touch on the arm after your witty remarks. Such soft touches are an indication that the woman does not feel uneasy with your touch.
- Body language
If the girl is constantly looking at her phone and replying to messages of friends and family not bothered about you, it’s a direct sign that she is not interested in you. A conversation can be deemed to have done its effect if the girl talks without interruptions and looks the guy straight into the eyes. The posture is also a good sign. If she is rigid and very conscious of how she sits, talks, etc. it can be due to tension, but sometimes you would not have been impressed her. Direct eye contact is also a chance for the other person to talk.
- Interest to Know your date More about Each Other
It’s the first time that you meet with the lady, and if she is genuinely interested in your activities, then it shows that this may work. Some women keep quiet and respond to the point. They show little or no interest to know about the person involved and this disinterest can mean that there will be no second chance. If the girl asks questions to know more about you and seems interested with your answers, you might get a chance to prove yourself in the second date
- Uninterrupted Flow of Conversation
Long hours of silence which are broken by short question answer sessions can be a dull date. Flab topics like weather or job can be a sign that the date is not going on the right track. A deep indulging conversation that just flows by without having to think about what and when you have to speak is a right note to a flickering date. If the two end up talking about what they expect to do together in future, it can be a sure shot sign of a second session and more to come if handled well. If the lady was too engrossed in a talk without bothering to send a pic or chat with her friends through her mobile, it means that you have hit the jackpot.
- The Crucial Closing Note
As the saying goes “ All is well that Ends Well”. If you have a good closing note, then whatever the previous signs meant, it can be considered irrelevant. A date that ends with no mention of “Next “ or “Tomorrow” can be considered a failure. A little bit of lingering around is a sign that the company is solicited. Abrupt dates that end with the girl looking at her phone and excuses herself saying that she wants to feed the pet or some other lame excuses is a direct sign that there would be no second chance.
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