Sure, anal sex seems to be shrouded in some form of mystery, but more and more couples are giving it a try behind close doors.
If this is something you are interested in trying, then you should understand these five things.
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It shouldn't hurt her
It may feel like an odd sensation, but done correctly, anal sex should not be painful. Use plenty of lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t create its own lubrication during arousal. If she is in pain, you are doing something wrong.
It might cause an orgasm
For some women, the act can feel incredibly sensual. The anus has a rich nerve supply, which can make things feel very intense and, for some women, result in an orgasm.
Start slow
Try it out after she’s already climaxed, when her body is relaxed. Or take a shower together, and massage the area with a soapy finger.
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Communicate
Before your clothes are off, talk it out with your partner. Also, consider having a safe word - a code word that has nothing to do with sex (like “hockey”) that brings everything to a halt, fast. You may not be able to tell if her moans are of pleasure or pain, so having a code word in place can make you both confident you’re on the same page during the act.
Use condoms
Even if you’re in a monogamous relationship, condoms are a good idea when it comes to anal sex. For one, they reduce friction to provide a smoother entry. Second, since anal tissue is fragile and susceptible to microscopic tears, having anal sex without a condom could cause the bacteria already in her anal canal to enter her bloodstream - not good.
And use a separate condom for each sex act (i.e., if you’re going from vaginal sex to anal sex).
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